Ci sono ancora dei momenti in cui ho bisogno di partire per sentire che posso contare solo si di me stesso, sulle mie forze, le mie capacità ad affronatare qualsiasi imprevisto, lontano da casa, dagli amici, da tutti quelli conosciuti. Star solo per essere felice con me stesso, per rendermi felice, ascoltarmi e dare a me stesso quello che voglio solo io. Essere il primo amico di se stessi, autori e fauori del proprio sorriso, artefici della propria felicità, senza dipendere da nessun altro.
Ed è così che sto organizzando un mio altro viaggetto.
Dove puoi vedere l'orizzonte del mondo, e caderci dentro, perchè solo così l'uomo si conosce.

Oceano, a presto!



And for now, a refresh of the sea, some days ago, to preapare to meet again the BIG sea.

Schon viele Orte:

Tanti Auguri e Buon Anno Nuovo!

Bye Bye 2011!



Io all the place 2011

Rendiconto dell'anno che passa:
devo dire che sono contento. L'anno è passato da un periodo di convalescenza ad un lento ma costante crescendo.
Da un leccarsi le ferite (e che ferite...) piano piano ho acquistato fiducia in me stesso.
Ed ho lavorato davvero tanto su di me. Un lento ricostruire di una nave sfasciata da una tempesta terribile.

Ho viaggiato tantissimo, come mai avrei potuto pensare. Ho visto tante città, conosciuto tante persone, volti nuovi, modi di fare stravaganti, pensieri strani, giusti o sbagliati o malati. Mi sono arricchito, e mi sto preparando per qualcosa che deve arrivare, di importante. Di sicuro. Mi piace e sono ottimista. Anche se non taglierò traguardi importanti, ho la consapevolezza e la percezione di non essere stato fermo, di essermi smosso dentro e portato avanti un movimento, di aver combattuto le abitudini e l'inerzia di agire. E credo che questo fine anno ne sia la dimostrazione.
Progetti per l'anno prossimo?
Beh, ancora viaggi, alcuni imminenti e quasi definiti, altri... verranno man mano, alcuni all'ultimo, altri last minute, altri sorpresa.
Ma l'obiettivo più importante (tra imparare lingue straniere, imparare a ballare, ecc...)
è quello di ESSERE FELICI!

GLÜCKLICH ZU SEIN! 





it's times like these you learn to live again
it's times like these you give and give again
it's times like these you learn to love again
it's times like these time and time again

Hast du alles probiert?
Hast du alles versucht?
Hast du alles getan?
Wenn nicht, fang an!
Hast du wirklich gelebt?
Hat deine Welt sich wirklich gedreht?
Hast du alles getan?
Wenn nicht, fang an!

Was willst du sagen?
Wen willst du fragen?
Was willst du erleben
und was willst du geben?
Wer gibt dir den Frieden
und was ist liegengeblieben?

Ich kann deinen Herzschlag hören
Keiner wird dich zerstören
Du bist am Leben, du bist am Leben
Weil dein Herz noch Feuer fängt
Weil dein Herz die Liebe kennt
Du bist am Leben, du bist am Leben

An was willst du glauben
oder glaubst du an dich?
Wie oft wirst du betrogen?
Wie oft belügst du dich?
Wieviel Türen wirst du öffnen?
Welches Schloss knackst du nie?
Wie oft kannst du widerstehen
und wann gehst du in die Knie?
Warum wirst du weinen
und wie oft bleibst du stumm
Und für wen wirst du beten,
weißt du wirklich warum?
Und bei wem wirst du schlafen
und vor wem rennst du weg?

Ich kann deinen Herzschlag hören,
keiner wird dich zerstören
Du bist am Leben, du bist am Leben
Weil dein Herz noch Feuer fängt
Weil dein Herz die Liebe kennt
Du bist am Leben, du bist am Leben
oh oh oh...

Und hast du dich verlaufen,
ich bin da, bring dich nach Haus'
Ich kann deinen Herzschlag hören
Keiner wird dich zerstören
Du bist am Leben, du bist am Leben
oh oh oh...

Wir sind am Leben, wir sind am Leben
Ich kann deinen Herzschlag hören
Keiner wird uns zerstören
Wir sind am Leben, wir sind am Leben
Weil unser Herz Feuer fängt
Weil unser Herz Liebe kennt
Wir sind am Leben, Wir sind am Leben
oh oh oh…

There is a world there outside to discover.



Ruins tell of a past full of life and action,



a far away past, where lifes grow, love affairs rose,



Harvest were abbundant.



But what still remain the same, is the view...



The view which they could see, we see today the same...

E' ora di riprendere mano a questo blog, che nell'ultimo anno è andato un po' a spasso (a ragione comunque).
Oggi cambiamo tema.

Nelle fiabe i principi e le principesse si travestono per trovare qualcuno che si innamori veramente di loro, e non del castello o dei gioielli. Questi miti esistono perchè ci dicono qualcosa di importante ed in questo caso il messaggio è: "tutti vogliono essere amati per quello che sono".
Altrimenti, se l'amore si fonda su qualità estrinseche, cosa succederebbe quando compare un partner più ricco o più bello?
Più si mettono in luce i vantaggi pratici e sociali di una relazione, meno probabile era che i partner si innamorassero davvero; e più ricompense potenziali ci vengono offerte per far innamorare qualcuno più ci diventa difficile credere alle sue motivazioni, ma anche decidere se siamo davvero innamorati (o abbagliati).

Quindi?
è meglio mantenere un basso profilo, non vendersi e soprattutto non mentire o esagerare qualità, titoli o posizioni che non si hanno.
Se cominciamo a proteggerci da un eventuale rifiuto con l'inganno o mettendo in mostra una versione di noi stessi più positiva e brillante, man mano che la relazione procede è quasi impossibile diventare tutt'a un tratto aperti e onesti, due ingredienti cruciali per una relazione di successo

(ispirato da scritti di A.G. Marshal)



The castle (the GOLDEN presentation of ourself) that dissolve under the waves (the time that passes), because built on the sand (the lies that are not able to resist witht he time)

Summer after high school, when we first met
We make-out in your Mustang to Radiohead
And on my eighteenth birthday,
we got matching tattoos



Used to steal your parents liquor
and climb to the roof
Talk about our future like we had a clue
Never planned that one day
I'd be losing you



In another life, I would be your girl
We'd keep all our promises,
be us against the world
In another life, I would make you stay
So I don't have to say you were
the one that got away
the one that got away



I was June and you were my Johnny Cash
Never one without the other, we made a pact
Sometimes when I miss you,
I put those records on, whoa

Someone said you had your tattoo removed
Saw you downtown, singing the blues
It's time to face the music,
I'm no longer your muse but



In another life, I would be your girl
We'd keep all our promises,
be us against the world
In another life, I would make you stay
So I don't have to say you were
the one that got away
the one that got away

The oooooooo-one (x3)

The one that got away



All this money can't buy me a time machine, no
Can’t replace you with a million rings, no
I should have told you what you meant to me, whoa
Cause now I pay the price



In another life, I would be your girl
We'd keep all our promises,
be us against the world
In another life, I would make you stay
So I don't have to say you were
the one that got away
the one that got away

The oooooooo-one (the one) (x3)

In another life, I would make you stay
So I don’t have to say you were
the one that got away
the one that got away

Una sana relazione si costruisce soltanto su un dialogo continuo e costruttivo di entrambi.
Solo mostrando ed esternando tutte le nostre emozioni, i nostri sentimenti, i nostri fastidi,
i timori, le paure e le incomprensioni, permettiamo di essere capiti, e di capire meglio l'altro.
Essere trasparenti l'un con l'altro ci permette di fidarci e di capire presto, se siamo davveri
fatti l'uno per l'altro.
Ma quando non mostrano le proprie carte, magari per paura di un rifiuto?




No Aeronautic Engineers allowed!

Checkpoint Charlie!







Abendessen auf dem Berliner Fernsehturm



unter einem DC3

I heard
That you're settled down
That you
Found a girl
And you're
Married now

I heard
That your dreams came true
I guess she gave you things
I didn't give to you

Old friend, why are you so shy?
It ain't like you to hold back or hide from the lie.

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited,
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it,
I had hoped you'd see my face,
And that you'd be reminded that for me it isn't over,

Never mind, I'll find someone like you,
I wish nothing but the best for you, too,
Don't forget me, I beg,
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead,"
Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead, yeah,



You know how the time flies,
Only yesterday was the time of our lives,
We were born and raised in a summer haze,
Bound by the surprise of our glory days,

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited,
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it,
I had hoped you'd see my face,
And that you'd be reminded that for me it isn't over,

Never mind, I'll find someone like you,
I wish nothing but the best for you, too,
Don't forget me, I beg,
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead,"

Nothing compares,
No worries or cares,
Regrets and mistakes, they're memories made,
Who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

Nevermind, I'll find someone like you,
I wish nothing but the best for you,
Don't forget me, I beg,
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead,"

Nevermind, I'll find someone like you,
I wish nothing but the best for you, too,
Don't forget me, I beg,
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead,"
Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead.

Ich wird niemals vergessen, mein Urlaub in Berlin!
Hören "Every teardrop is a waterfall"...













I turn the music up, i got my records on
i shut the world outside until the lights come on
maybe the streets alight, maybe the trees are gone
i feel my heart start beating to my favourite song

and all the kids they dance, all the kids all night
until monday morning feels another life
i turn the music up
i’m on a roll this time
and heaven is in sight

i turn the music up, i got my records on
from underneath the rubble sing a rebel song
don’t want to see another generation drop
i’d rather be a comma than a full stop

maybe i’m in the black, maybe i’m on my knees
maybe i’m in the gap between the two trapezes
but my heart is beating and my pulses start
cathedrals in my heart

and we saw oh this light i swear you, emerge blinking into
to tell me it’s alright
as we soar walls, every siren is a symphony
and every tear’s a waterfall
is a waterfall
oh
is a waterfall
oh oh oh
is a is a waterfall
every tear
is a waterfall
oh oh oh

Ohi Ohi, when you discover that going around it isn't so bad...



with the right car (until it endures!)

Very nice and living city



Der RHEIN!!! (and you can also swimm inside! watch on the right!)




Far away the french border!



That view from the Münster

On the note of this mitic song of Don Henley:



Nobody on the road
nobody on the beach
I feel it in the air
the summer's out of reach
Empty lake, empty streets,
the sun goes down alone
I'm drivin' by your house
Though I know you're not home



I can see you
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got your hair combed back and your
sunglasses on, baby
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
after the boys of summer have gone



I never will forget those nights
I wonder if it was a dream
Remember how you made me crazy?
Remember how I made you scream?
Now I don't understand
what's happened to our love,
But babe I'm gonna get you back
I'm gonna show you what I'm made of



I can see you
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
I see you walkin' real slow and you're
smilin' at everyone
I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
after the boys of summer have gone



Out on the road today
I saw a deadhead sticker on a Cadillac
A little voice inside my head said,
"Don't look back. You can never look back."
I thought I knew what love was,
what did I know?
Those days are gone forever
I should just let them go but



I can see you
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got that top pulled down and that
radio on baby
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
after the boys of summer have gone



I can see you
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got that hair slicked back and those
wayfarers on, baby
I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
after the boys of summer have gone

Next weekend, new trip: Basel!
in the heart of Europe, at the border triangle where Germany, France and Switzerland meet.
And finally I will see again the Rhein!
For this reason, I would have liked to go with someone very special.